The third decade of one's life has come to an end, leaving you ruminating with thoughts of existentialism, self-doubt, and the exuberant hope for what's to come.  Celebrate this milestone with a raspberry vanilla cake, flavored with underlying tones of citrus, earl grey and lavender mixed with tart accents of fresh raspberries and blueberries.  Have it served to you by the living matriarchal icons of your family, whose influence and presence generates a strong sense of perspective as you analyze who you've become and what you essentially want to be.